Sex Anxiety Specialist

Doing Great Things With Hypnotherapy Since 2007

Talking yourself out of an erection? Avoiding sex?

Can’t keep it hard with a partner, no matter how much you try?

Why is it not a problem on your own, but is as scary as hell with a partner?

Do you worry so much about keeping your erection it becomes impossible every time?

Does avoiding sex make the problem go away?

Give me two hours of your life and I will give you something to last your whole lifetime.

So, you would just like to be normal, like any other bloke.

Not superman, James Bond or some unrealistic ‘Alpha Male’ freak, but normal, with a normal, natural sex life.

Not worrying about it, not avoiding it, no pills, no fear and no dread. Just normal.

You want to be able to get it up on demand and to keep it up when it matters most.

No man can fake an erection, and when penetration is called for, you want to get it up and keep it up - You know, normal!

That is what I do. I create normality in your sex life. Fear, dread, doubt and sex anxiety are not normal, not in the way you have known them.

Too Good To Be True?

"Can all of this really be fixed? I have lived with this for a long time, no matter how hard I try to calm down, or try not to think about it, it still happens. Sometimes I can get by with pills, or alcohol, but I can't rely on it."

"How can you sound so confident you can fix this for me?"

This Is What I do.  This Is Who I am.

  • I have this tool box of therapy tools. I have developed it for more than a decade. Not in theory, but in practice, working with real people face to face, doing a good job fixing all types of sex anxiety issues.
  • I do not do ‘fluffy’ I never do ‘energy waves or whale music’ or stuff like that.
  • I do what works. I am practical and pragmatic. It has to be simple and it has to work with most people, or it has no place in my tool kit.
  • Hypnosis tools make up a large part of my tool kit, but this is not all I have to work with. Hypnotherapy works very well for most people most of the time. But, what about those who are less hypnotisable? Well, I have proven tools for that too.
  • I can only work face to face with you after we have a phone call and chat about it. In this conversation I will honestly tell you if I am the right person to fix your problems. About 8 out of 10 people I speak to end up with the result they want. That's Honesty...Because no one can fix everyone.. Start Your Conversation Here

This is me, this is who I am

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Making contact is the ONLY difficult thing you need to do

I thought £165 for two hour was expensive, and what if it does not work for me.  When I spoke to Richard he understood me.  He said, if the therapy session was a disaster and he was not able to make anything change, he would not charge me. I wanted to believed him, but  I hesitated. Eventually I went for it because I had no idea what else to do. 
It was money well spent.
The money was not for two hours, it was for the rest of my life without that crap going on in my head.

See A Doctor First

I only work with men who have ruled out the physical, for them it is not an erection failure because of a medical condition, it is about what is going on in their heads. It is all about sex anxiety and an expectation of failure.

It is all about the real fear of being soft when she wants you hard.

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Sex Anxiety. Only two words but they means such a lot. It seems so crazy to have such fear with a thing considered the most natural act in the world. But you do. Not only you. Many many guys do. You are not alone, yes it feels like it, but you are not alone. Who ever speaks about a sex anxiety? It is not the 'done thing'. No Facebook support group exist, very little support exists, when the problem is all in your head, what do you do?
By the time you get to read these words you already know it is a thing. You know you have some form of sex anxiety, and you are looking for a solution. A proper lasting solution. It will not go away on it's own, alcohol is not the best answer, and neither could be the regular use of erection drugs.
I am always minded to check with my clients exactly what it is they feel the anxiety is about. Yes, going soft at the point of penetration is the most common thing I hear, but why? The fear of failing, an experience borne spiral of self doubt, and self talk is one thing. Often it comes form one bad experience exaggerated. But there other reasons too. Guilt is a massively strong hindrance to good sex. Guilt and sex problems. More than a few of my client's troubles started during an affair or one off hook up. Doing it when they know they should not have been. For others it is about arousal. Family circumstances expect them to be with one person, when they , deep down want another, or even other gender.